What Avengers: Age of Ultron Can Teach Us About Life

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Okay, so one of the reasons people love the Avengers so much is that the characters have all had real challenges to face in their lives, but they’ve overcome them (at least for the most part). I mean. Black Widow was trained as a kid to be a professional killer. Captain America had to endure more than his fair share of bullying and disappointment due to his small frame. The Hulk – anger management, obviously. Thor had to learn to take his hubris down a notch or two. In the movies, Hawkeye seems to be a comparatively normal dude, but in the comics he had a pretty unusual childhood growing up in a circus (honestly, why is this not part of the films?). Iron Man apparently never really felt like he was good enough for old Howard Stark — and again, hubris. Scarlet Witch endured genetic testing/being a mutant, pick your back story (although if the movies take a page from the comics, Scarlet Witch’s story might take a pretty different turn). And then there’s the Vision, an android whose whole creation is kinda messed up.

So with that in mind, here are a few lessons from the movie that we could all stand to take to heart.


Don’t let fear make your decisions:

Okay, spoiler alert folks (but seriously, if you haven’t seen it yet, get your butt over to Amazon). There’s a scene in the movie where Hawkeye finds Scarlet Witch cowering in a mostly destroyed building while Ultron’s robot army is basically killing everyone in sight. It’s a critical moment for her – she’s deciding if she wants to play it safe and hide or pick herself up and fight. Hawkeye says to her, “[If you] stay in here, you’re good.  I’ll send your brother to come find you. But if you step out that door, you are an Avenger.”

A beat later, SW is outside kicking robot ass, and by the end of the movie, she’s a full-fledged Avengers inductee. It really is true that when we make decisions based on fear – when the avoidance of any potential pain is our guiding motivation – we make ourselves and our lives smaller.  But when we take risks and strive to reach our fullest potential, we can experience amazing things we never would have imagined.

Stick with the ones who stick with you

At another point, the Hulk goes on a very dramatic rampage in the middle of the New York City – there are news crews present and everything. So the public clearly witnesses the extent of how violent he can be.



Eventually, Iron Man has to remove him from the scene. But the Avengers make it clear that, despite the incident, they’ve got the Hulk’s big, green back. In particular, Black Widow’s feelings for him clearly aren’t diminished by the events. The lesson being this – we all have dark nights of the soul, but that’s okay. We don’t need to hide how we’re feeling from the people who care about us, because the ones who love us will show up (and if they don’t, that’s on them, not us). Pretending everything is okay when it’s not only puts distance between ourselves and the people we love.


Learn from your mistakes

Ah, personal growth 101. SW and her twin brother Quicksilver start off the movie as allies of Ultron, eager to take a bite out of Iron Man. They hold him responsible for the deaths of their parents, who were killed by weapons developed by Iron Man’s company, Stark Industries. But as events unfold, they come to realize that they’ve made a major error in judgment (um, to put it lightly) by teaming up with Ultron, and switch allegiances, fighting instead with the Avengers.

So, don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake. Don’t be consumed by regret over the things in your past that, looking back, you’d do differently. All of our missteps have something to teach us, and that’s a crucial part of growing into your most authentic self.


Have patience with your process

In the earlier Iron Man movies, Tony has to come to terms with his narcissism. It’s arguably in part arrogance that gets him abducted in Iraq. Hubris that allows him to believe he’s the only one with the skill to build an Iron Man suit. And ego that leads him to drunkenly wreck his own home during his birthday party. But he always seems to get it together, and even allows himself to be vulnerable enough to demonstrate to Pepper Potts, his assistant, that he loves her.

Yet in Ultron, he’s still plagued by hubris – which is largely what gets the gang in trouble in the first place. He thinks he can singlehandedly save the world by creating Ultron, a robot who unexpectedly turns out to be sentient and murderous. Tony has come a long way from the self-absorbed playboy we see in the early scenes of the first movie, but he’s still working on this issue. And that’s okay! We all have challenges and soul lessons we need to learn in life, and they’re a major part of each of our journeys. We don’t have to learn these lessons overnight – we just need to do the best we can, and keep taking the next right step.

And there you have it! Everything you need to know in life, you can learn from superheroes!

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